The Bible is rich with verses that speak to the value, joy, and blessing that children bring into our lives. From the Old Testament to the New Testament, Scripture consistently underscores the importance of children and the blessings they represent. In the context of parenting, these verses not only highlight the joy that children bring but also the responsibility and privilege of raising them in a God-honoring way.
One of the most well-known passages that speaks about children being a blessing is found in the Psalms. Psalm 127:3-5 (NIV) reads:
"Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. They will not be put to shame when they contend with their opponents in court."
This passage vividly portrays children as a heritage and a reward from God. The metaphor of children as arrows in the hands of a warrior suggests that they are not only a blessing but also a means by which God's purposes can be advanced. The imagery of a full quiver signifies abundance and strength, emphasizing that having many children is a source of joy and pride.
Another significant verse is found in Psalm 128:3-4 (NIV):
"Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive shoots around your table. Yes, this will be the blessing for the man who fears the Lord."
Here, the psalmist uses the imagery of a fruitful vine and olive shoots to depict the prosperity and vitality that children bring to a household. The olive tree, known for its longevity and productivity, symbolizes the enduring blessing and legacy of children. This passage highlights the connection between fearing the Lord and experiencing the blessing of a thriving family.
In the New Testament, Jesus Himself speaks about the value of children. In Matthew 18:2-5 (NIV), we find:
"He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. And he said: 'Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.'"
Jesus' words here emphasize the humility, innocence, and trust that children embody, qualities that are essential for entering the kingdom of heaven. By welcoming and valuing children, we are, in essence, welcoming and valuing Jesus Himself. This underscores the intrinsic worth and blessing of children in the eyes of God.
The book of Proverbs also offers wisdom on the blessings of children. Proverbs 17:6 (NIV) states:
"Children’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children."
This verse highlights the joy and honor that children and grandchildren bring to their parents and grandparents. The imagery of a crown signifies honor and glory, suggesting that children are a source of great pride and joy for their families.
In addition to these verses, the story of Hannah in 1 Samuel 1-2 provides a powerful narrative about the blessing of children. Hannah, who was barren, prayed fervently for a child, and God answered her prayer by giving her a son, Samuel. In her prayer of thanksgiving, found in 1 Samuel 2:1-10, Hannah acknowledges that children are a gift from God and a sign of His favor.
Furthermore, the command to be fruitful and multiply, given in Genesis 1:28 (NIV), underscores the blessing of procreation:
"God blessed them and said to them, 'Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.'"
This command not only highlights the blessing of children but also the responsibility of stewardship and care for God's creation, which includes raising and nurturing children.
The Bible also speaks to the joy and delight that children bring to their parents. Proverbs 23:24-25 (NIV) says:
"The father of a righteous child has great joy; a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him. May your father and mother rejoice; may she who gave you birth be joyful!"
These verses emphasize the joy and pride that parents experience when their children walk in righteousness and wisdom. It is a reminder that children are not only a blessing in their presence but also in their character and actions.
Moreover, the New Testament continues to affirm the value of children. In Mark 10:13-16 (NIV), we read:
"People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, 'Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.' And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them."
Jesus' actions and words here clearly illustrate the high value He places on children. By blessing them and affirming their place in the kingdom of God, Jesus demonstrates that children are indeed a precious gift and a blessing.
In reflecting on these verses, it becomes evident that the Bible consistently portrays children as a blessing from God. They are a source of joy, pride, and honor for their families. They embody qualities that are essential for entering the kingdom of heaven, and they represent a heritage and reward from the Lord.
As non-denominational Christians, it is important to embrace this biblical perspective on children. In our parenting, we are called to recognize the blessing that children are and to raise them in a manner that honors God. This involves nurturing their faith, guiding them in righteousness, and cherishing the joy and delight they bring to our lives.
In conclusion, the Bible is unequivocal in its affirmation that children are a blessing from God. From the Psalms to the teachings of Jesus, Scripture highlights the joy, honor, and responsibility that come with raising children. As we reflect on these verses, may we be inspired to cherish and nurture the precious gift of children in our lives.
