Understanding one's stage in discipleship and Christian maturity is a deeply personal and introspective journey. It involves reflecting on your spiritual growth, your relationship with God, and how you live out your faith in everyday life. As a non-denominational Christian pastor, I believe that this process of self-examination is vital for every believer, as it helps you to recognize where you are and what steps you need to take to grow closer to Christ.
The journey of discipleship can be likened to a path with various stages, each marked by distinct characteristics and experiences. While the stages of spiritual growth may not be universally defined, many Christian thinkers and theologians have proposed frameworks to help believers understand their spiritual development. One such framework is the "Stages of Faith" model proposed by James W. Fowler, which outlines a series of stages that individuals typically progress through as they mature in their faith.
The Stages of Spiritual Growth
- Initial Faith (Infancy in Christ)
This stage is often characterized by a newfound enthusiasm and excitement about one's faith. New believers are like spiritual infants, as described by the Apostle Peter: "Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation" (1 Peter 2:2, NIV). At this stage, individuals are eager to learn and absorb as much as they can about God, Jesus, and the Bible. They may rely heavily on more mature Christians for guidance and support.
- Growing Faith (Childhood in Christ)
As believers continue to grow, they enter a stage of spiritual childhood. This stage involves learning to walk in faith, much like a child learns to walk physically. The Apostle Paul addresses this stage when he writes, "When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me" (1 Corinthians 13:11, NIV). During this phase, believers begin to develop a deeper understanding of Christian doctrines and start to form their own spiritual practices, such as regular prayer and Bible study.
- Maturing Faith (Adolescence in Christ)
The next stage can be likened to spiritual adolescence. Just as teenagers grapple with identity and independence, believers in this stage wrestle with deeper questions of faith and purpose. This period is often marked by a desire to serve and make a difference in the world, as well as a struggle with doubts and challenges. James 1:2-4 (NIV) speaks to this process: "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."
- Mature Faith (Adulthood in Christ)
Spiritual adulthood is characterized by a stable, mature faith that influences every aspect of a believer's life. At this stage, individuals have a deep, abiding relationship with God and exhibit the fruit of the Spirit, as outlined in Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV): "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control." Mature believers are often involved in mentoring others, leading ministries, and living out their faith through acts of service and love.
- Deepening Faith (Spiritual Parenthood)
The final stage can be seen as spiritual parenthood, where believers not only live out their faith with maturity but also actively disciple others. This stage reflects the Great Commission given by Jesus in Matthew 28:19-20 (NIV): "Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you." Spiritual parents invest in the growth of others, helping them to navigate their own stages of spiritual development.
Reflecting on Your Own Journey
To discern your current stage in discipleship and Christian maturity, consider the following reflective questions:
- How do you engage with Scripture? Are you still in the phase of learning the basics, or do you delve into deeper theological studies and apply biblical principles to your life?
- What is the nature of your prayer life? Is it primarily about asking for personal needs, or do you also spend time in intercession, thanksgiving, and listening to God?
- How do you handle challenges and doubts? Do you find yourself easily shaken, or do you trust in God's sovereignty and seek His wisdom during difficult times?
- In what ways do you serve others? Are you involved in your church and community, and do you seek opportunities to share the love of Christ with those around you?
- Do you mentor others in their faith? Are you investing in the spiritual growth of others, helping them to navigate their own journey of discipleship?
Practical Steps for Spiritual Growth
Regardless of the stage you identify with, there are practical steps you can take to continue growing in your faith:
- Engage in Regular Bible Study: Make it a habit to read and study the Bible daily. Use study guides, commentaries, and other resources to deepen your understanding of Scripture.
- Cultivate a Vibrant Prayer Life: Set aside dedicated time for prayer each day. Include praise, confession, thanksgiving, and intercession in your prayers.
- Join a Faith Community: Be an active member of a local church or small group. Fellowship with other believers provides support, encouragement, and accountability.
- Serve Others: Look for opportunities to serve within your church and community. Serving others helps you to live out your faith and grow in Christ-like character.
- Seek Mentorship: Find a mature Christian mentor who can guide you in your spiritual journey. Likewise, be open to mentoring others who are newer in their faith.
- Embrace Spiritual Disciplines: Practice spiritual disciplines such as fasting, solitude, and meditation on God's Word. These practices help you to draw closer to God and grow in holiness.
Encouragement for the Journey
Remember that spiritual growth is a lifelong journey. The Apostle Paul, despite his profound faith and ministry, acknowledged that he had not yet reached perfection: "Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me" (Philippians 3:12, NIV). Be encouraged that God is at work in you, shaping and molding you into the image of Christ.
As you reflect on your stage in discipleship and Christian maturity, know that each stage has its own unique challenges and blessings. Embrace where you are, seek God's guidance, and take intentional steps to grow in your faith. Trust that God, who began a good work in you, will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6, NIV).
